The Million-Dollar Suit--David Shepherd
The Million-Dollar Suit
The boys who were Priest age in the Boise First Ward had
set their own dress standard to bless the Sacrament in 1988-89. Many of them wore
a very casual attire of colored shirts and casual pants to perform that sacred
ordinance. I was very concerned about our son, David Shepherd, who was turning
16, and how he would be affected by this. Our boys had worn suits to Church
since they were little. David, NOT wanting to stand out differently from his
peers, was very protective of his position in this whole situation. However, I
came from a home where I was taught when a boy blessed the Sacrament, he dressed
in a suit, white shirt, and tie out of respect for that calling! Deacons could
wear white shirts, a tie, and nice pants.
As
his birthday came, I chose my words very carefully with him one day as we had
the following discussion, “David, you have turned 16 and have been ordained a
Priest. What would it take to have you wear a suit, white shirt, and tie when
you bless the Sacrament next Sunday?”
“Well,”
he thoughtfully replied, “If we could go out to the Mall to Jay Jacobs, and you
buy the suit of MY choice, and shirt, and tie, then I would wear them
to Church to bless the Sacrament!” He knew I was too frugal to pay full price,
and it would never happen! I thought he was just throwing that comment out there!
“Let’s
see if I’ve got this straight. If I take you to Jay Jacobs and let you pick out
a suit, shirt, and tie of your choice, then you are telling me that you will
wear it to Church on Sunday? I won’t have to remind you, nag nor bug you to
wear it. You promise that you’ll just wear it every Sunday?” I
bargained.
He
quickly replied, “Yes! I promise I will.”
So,
the next night after school David and I went to the Boise Mall to Jay Jacobs
(fancy men’s wear store). There he selected a beautiful suit, shirt, tie, belt,
and socks, etc. (Get the picture?) It was ready to be picked up by Friday in
time for Church on Sunday when David would be blessing the Sacrament for the
first time. That $129 suit would be in the $300-$400 range in today’s economy.
I swallowed hard and wrote the check. Jim totally supported what we were doing!
Sunday
came, and I was sitting with the rest of our family on the right side of the
chapel facing the Sacrament table. There was David Shepherd sitting up there
facing the congregation in that beautiful suit! He actually stood out because
he looked so sharp—actually incredible! Then the Spirit whispered to me, “That
isn’t a $129 suit David is wearing; it’s a ‘million-dollar suit.’ David is
going on a mission!” He looked like a missionary! The tears just flowed
down my cheeks in gratitude to my Heavenly Father for that special witness! He
wore that suit every Sunday as promised. And, yes, he did go on a mission when
he turned 19! He was called to the Oklahoma, Oklahoma City Mission and was a
great missionary!
There
is power in one person doing the right thing! David set an example, and the
younger boys followed. The dress code was elevated for administering the
Sacrament in the Boise First Ward. When David went on a mission, all the
younger boys, as they turned 19, went on missions, too. Brian was 19 months younger
than his brother. These two brothers’ missions overlapped in 1994 for five
months (Oklahoma and Brazil).
When
David came home, he met Jennifer Blakeslee, and the rest is history as they say.
They fell in love and were eventually married in the Boise Temple, both
graduated from BSU, and have good careers and family, Tyler, Aubrey, and Sarah.
David has served as a Counselor in the Bishopric, High Priest Group Leader, and
recently was called to the Stake High Council. We are grateful for his
faithfulness and that “million-dollar suit,” and the mark it made in his life!
Memories of Carol Ann Shepherd 11-6-18
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